Why do we say children are like clay ?

 I feel that clay can be moulded in whichever way we want when it is wet that is why we say so. But on the other hand we mould ourselves continuously in order to adapt to the surrounding.Then, moulding is not only in context of a child but it is equally applicable for adults.

We think that children are easy to mould because they listen to us and they absorb everything easily whatever we say or do. But as adults we develop some kind of perception which may allow us to mould the way we want.

If we can recogize our strength and weaknesses then I think we will able to evolve in a better way. When it comes to children we only have to give them the right environment and they will mould themselves in the best way. 

Here is an interesting quote which speaks all that which is required to blossom.

"DON'T BE PUSHED AROUND BY FEARS IN YOUR MIND. BE LED BY THE DREAMS IN YOUR HEART."

- Roy T. Bennett

I feel we always have a chance to mould ourselves in the best possible way.

All the best 

SITTING IN THE SUNLIGHT

 My son studying in the sunlight.

It is beautiful to sit in the sunlight and study. I was also reading a wonderful book. Just after sitting for 10 minutes I realized that my shoulder pain was gone.It was miraculous.I was having pain in my shoulder since last two days.I was applying all sorts of ointment and doing exercise but it was persistant.And my pain went off just by sitting under hot sun.Now-a-days, most of the time we are infront of electronic gadgets. We are living a stagnant life in our house.So,we usually prefer to sit in ÀC.24/7 we are inside house.Though,mentally we are involved into few things but physically we are not so active.So,we can face the problem of body ache, headache, mood swing,dizziness,depressed etc.Today after sitting for 20minutes in the sun I recollected so many memories of childhood.When most of the time we were playing in the sun.I realised that I should encourage my son too to sit in the sunlight.Once again it is the nature which is offering so much to us and we are sitting inside the four walls all the time.Sunrays can heal our physical and mental well being.We can get a good sound sleep at night ,if, we sit for 15-20minutes in sunlight.It can elevate our mood.In the present condition if we cannot go out then why not take out some time and sit out ,it may be lawn, balcony or terrace.Serotonin is relealsed in our body when we are exposed to sunlight.It is one of the 'happy hormone' which our body produces.So,I think it is a good idea to enjoy nature and its benifits. We need to capture these moments in our life and make these days memorable.All thanks to lovely sunlight .

BEYOND LIMITS: Living with nature

BEYOND LIMITS: Living with nature: It is now five months since we are facing covid-19 pandamic in India. I feel that this has made us think about our existence on this planet....

Living with nature

It is now five months since we are facing covid-19 pandamic in India. I feel that this has made us think about our existence on this planet.The purpose of life is so simple but with the advancement of our lifestyle we are going into the deep well of greed and ignorance. WE have forgotten the concept of simple living and high thinking.Our minds are trapped into small mean thoughts of aquiring wealth only for our benifit. Let us reconnect ourselves to the surrounding nature.Invest some time to think that how can we contribute towards nature. I always think that one way to connect is to grow plants. I think we can donate plantlets of trees in every house.This is the time when greenary flourish everywhere.The natural conditions are supportive to grow more and more plants. As a human being we must involve ourselves to bring the best for nature. I think this will bring out best in us. Today living in this concrete jungle has made our mind also like concrete.We are not flexible in thinking. I MEAN, when it comes to help humanity it does'nt mean only giving money. I feel that it should become part of our life to heal nature. This will definitly heal us.As the mental baggage is increasing day by day.I feel that we can be free from it only if we heal our surrounding, our nature. Let us take a pledge to think of some good ideas to live close to nature. AND FOLLOW THE QUOTE

Heal nature to heal ourself, heal surrounding, heal world.☺☺☺☺ ...

Love you nature....

God has always a bigger plan than we could imagine

It is often said, "God has always a bigger plan we could imagine". Usually, people say to sympathize with each other.But when one goes through a difficult time, this line seems to be like a mirage in the desert.
                                                                                One question arises, if god has a bigger plan, then, why do we face trouble ?
When we go on a roller coaster ride, what is in our mind ? It is just one thought - to enjoy and feel the excitement of the ride.If we can imagine our life is like a roller coaster ride,then would our prospective to see life change. We have faith in the swing, that once, it will go down, then, will come up again.
                           This incredible faith is missing when we question GOD. We feel troubles are pulling us down.But that is the god's plan to bring out the best in us.This is the process which we sometimes fail to realize.From time to time, we find ourselves standing, on the midway, where we have to decide which way to go.After choosing the path, if we face unfavourable result, then we question again.
                                                                                                                              When I face such a situation in my life, I strongly believe, that, this will make me strong and better person.I FEEL this is what we call to evolve or to develop.It comes by faith. This unwavering belief brings out strength and determination in our life.So, always pull out yourself from the point, where, you are suffocating yourself.Have the trust and move on.
One more thing, which is very important is our intention. If, it is with the good intention then it acts as a catalyst to pave the way for a bigger plan.You become focused and gain strength to do more.This is I call god's bigger plan.As in the words of OPRAH WINFREY--
 
" Every single thing that has happened in your life is preparing you for the moment that is to come."

RAISE YOUR STANDARD

When you face a downfall in your life, what is your response to it, determines your inner strength.We all face at some time, such a phase, where we are in a turmoil. There are ample number of examples which help to realize to have a strong base.
                              If a building is built on a strong foundation, with all the necessary precautions, it can stand for years. A farmer before putting seeds in the land, takes care of soil quality. As he knows that a better quality seed may also deteriorate, if the soil is not good.
                                                                                             Similarly, if our values are not strong then it can damage the next generations. With time, few things fade and some pop-up.This is we need to realize, that, what we should reap to raise the standard.Here I am not saying in terms of promotion in a job or getting a new car.My notion is to stay connected with the supreme, inner core.
                                                                                                                   One should not tremble down and feel helpless in the trouble. Rather, one should always get inspired and motivated to flutter in the tempest.

"If you want to change your life you have to raise your standard " - Tony Robbins

                     That is why it is so important to build a strong foundation for a child - physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually too. As it is like a seed, which has to face hardships of the world, still rise above.
What will make him strong, are the "values".So, whenever he face any challenge, he anchors itself to the core values.This will help him to overcome any hurdle in life.
                                                                                  Therefore, going towards wrong track, which is like going down; instead, one can hold the strong rope of ethics and moral values, to raise the standard.

" Love yourself enough to never lower your standards for anyone " - Unknown

BECOME LIGHT - KEEP CLUTTER OUT

Apart from useful things, we gather few things which become useless as time flows. Gradually, the pile of waste and unused things increases.Then we face shortage of space and we are not able to find things when required.Many corners remain untouched for days as they are full.

                                                                                                  I am talking about house space.Today, why I am thinking about it ? I realized that the clutter in the house blocks the energy of the house.So, apart from regular cleaning we should throw out the unnecessary things in the house.In the same manner our mind too need the cleaning. How often do we do that ? Do we really clean it ? Had we ever thought that we are carrying so many impressions in our mind.
                                                              First, let us find out what is clutter for our mind.Clutter is like useless baggage which we carry in our mind.It is past regret, negative thought, painful memory etc.So, all these block the way for new ideas, innovation and creativity.
                                                                                        When we observe a child, we always find them enthusiastic, loving, enjoying, innocent and enriched with fresh energy.Why is it so? Because he does not have unnecessary thoughts.He gradually absorbs the environment around.It can be either negative or positive depending on people's thought around him.
                                               If you want to have the same energy as a child has then empty your mind.There are various ways by which one can be free from non-essential things.One method is to fill it with positive attitude which will remove the clutter and fill you with only creativity.Find your ways to remove the clutter and feel the lightness in your mind.
                                    BECOME LIGHT - TO BECOME CREATIVE
'' Whatever is bringing you down, get rid of it.You don't need that negativity in your life"----Alex Morgan

BEYOND LIMITS: WE ARE THE MIRACLE

BEYOND LIMITS: WE ARE THE MIRACLE: I truly believe that we are the miracle. We live on the planet earth which is full of colours and variety.Have you observed any particular...

WE ARE THE MIRACLE

I truly believe that we are the miracle.
We live on the planet earth which is full of colours and variety.Have you observed any particular pattern ?
YES, there is a pattern that one who is born will die and again the new life will be reproduced.
From the smallest living organism to the largest, we can see each has :-
* Survival instinct
* Can sense the surrounding
* Self healing mechanism
* Capacity to reproduce
These are the basis of all creation.
HENRY MILLER says-
"Don't look for miracles.You yourself are the miracle"
For example - When someone is in pain, if we can feel, then, that is a miracle.
It is also said that - Sometimes miracles are just good people with kind hearts.
Science has shown that everything in this universe is energy.Everything around us vibrate with a particular frequency.This includes plants,animals,people, mountain, river, rock etc; even our thoughts and feelings.
Those who are at high frequency level, they have high energy. When energy level is high we create a large positive energy circle (aura) around us. Then whatever we think and say come to reality.This is how miracles take place.
Now, question arises how to raise frequency level.I am suggesting ten ways, which are universally well known.By bringing these into practice,can definitely help you.
1) Walk in fresh air.Feel the breath.
2) Physical exercise/ Yoga / Pranayam
3) Meditation (most important)
4) Trust in the supreme power.
5) Be in silence for some time in a day.
6) Avoid negative talks and people.
7) Surround yourself with people discussing positive and creative ideas.
8) You should do what you love to do.
9) Act of kindness
10) Serve humanity
Be consistent in all of  these points.If you can manifest these in your life, then, you can observe - We are the miracle.

" Miracles start to happen when you give as much energy to your dreams as you do to your fear"- By Richard Wilkins

WHO IS YOUR INSPIRATION ?

When we see someone doing a much better work than us then, what are our thoughts ?
Are we inspired or jealous ?
Do we learn or blame ?
Answers of these questions pave the way for further thought process. Then, finally we take actions accordingly. Now-a-days we see so much of anxiety, competition and back-stabbing at work places.

It seem to me like all are running day and night, searching for a trophy each day.I feel where is the time to be inspired. Just like robot (mechanical being), without any emotions and values we are moving here and there. And the irony is then we say - " We are progressing ".
So, if the race is for the trophy then, their will be only one winner.On the other hand, others will either inspire or blame. The innermost consciousness is to look for positive qualities in others i.e. to  get inspired.But, today the tendency has become to blame and find fault.

Why the tendency to blame most of the time has developed ?
If answer is blame then its a negative value system which one develops from lack of appreciation, work pressure, restless mind, gossip and poor work quality etc.Those who get inspired are those who follow positive value system.They have the mindset to learn and look good in others. So, its a positive habit which I feel each individual must develop right from the childhood till the last breath.
                                                                                                                 This is the very essence of being a human being. We talk about values, ethics and etiquette for children. Then why do we forget as we grow.When we start any business or join any institute we must be an inspiration for others and should get inspired too. I get inspired by even a small creature like ant ....etc..Find yours.............
ALL THE BEST.

BEYOND LIMITS: BE A LEADER

BEYOND LIMITS: BE A LEADER: If I have  to define a leader I need only one sentence to describe, that  is " One who CARE". In any institute, organization, co...

BE A LEADER

If I have  to define a leader I need only one sentence to describe, that  is " One who CARE".
In any institute, organization, company and country role of a head is very important. People who work under, always look up to them.There are so many words to explain the character of a leader like- Visionary, innovator, motivator, initiator, torch-bearer etc.
                                                                      But I feel one word "care" gives a complete sense in all respect.In a family we see our mother or father as a leader who takes care of everything.They consciously or unconsciously become " hero" in our life.Similarly, we look up, on teachers when we go to school.
                                                                        I believe each person is a leader in their position.In our day to day life, each moment,we have to be conscious and take charge of situations.Now, how we react and act on the circumstances develops our personality.And this makes us either a leader or a follower. As JOHN QUICY ADAMS says - If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a LEADER.
                                                          A leader always search for solutions.As in the words of HENRY FORD - " Don't find the fault, find remedy". A LEADER walks along with the people who follow him. He understands the value of their  work. He communicates and creates an atmosphere of trust.These values make people more willing to work with such leaders. So, I would say be a person who care.If one can attribute this trait, then he or she can bring miracles in not only lives of their family members but people around.Think like a leader and be a leader.Thus, take care of  people to reach the ultimate goal of leadership which is to save humanity.ALL THE BEST.........AND ....BE A LEADER....

POONAM  KANSLIWAL

LIVE YOUR DREAMS

" A dream is a wish your heart makes." -- WALT DISNEY
We have one human life to live. We get several choices to make our life go smoothly. But sometimes it is difficult to find that which is the right way to go. Then arise the conflict in our mind. Several thoughts come to our mind.
                                                                         In some cases we even have to make a choice between our dreams and reality. 
This reminds me of a quote by OPRAH WINFREY-

" The biggest adventure  you can take is to live life of your DREAMS"

If we follow this quote then I think we can go for our dreams. But most of us are not really able to make this choice. The reason is very well given by famous motivational speaker.
LES BROWN in his quote :-
"Too many of us are not living our dreams because we are living our fear". 
I believe we should always live the life of our dreams. If we do not do so, then we always will strive for happiness in life. And believe that something incomplete in our life. So, stand up and take a stand for your dreams. And give your heart and soul to live the life you want.

"Let your dreams be bigger than your fears and your actions louder than your words".