Monday, May 28, 2018
BEYOND LIMITS: BE A LEADER
BEYOND LIMITS: BE A LEADER: If I have to define a leader I need only one sentence to describe, that is " One who CARE". In any institute, organization, co...
BE A LEADER
If I have to define a leader I need only one sentence to describe, that is " One who CARE".
In any institute, organization, company and country role of a head is very important. People who work under, always look up to them.There are so many words to explain the character of a leader like- Visionary, innovator, motivator, initiator, torch-bearer etc.
But I feel one word "care" gives a complete sense in all respect.In a family we see our mother or father as a leader who takes care of everything.They consciously or unconsciously become " hero" in our life.Similarly, we look up, on teachers when we go to school.
I believe each person is a leader in their position.In our day to day life, each moment,we have to be conscious and take charge of situations.Now, how we react and act on the circumstances develops our personality.And this makes us either a leader or a follower. As JOHN QUICY ADAMS says - If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a LEADER.
A leader always search for solutions.As in the words of HENRY FORD - " Don't find the fault, find remedy". A LEADER walks along with the people who follow him. He understands the value of their work. He communicates and creates an atmosphere of trust.These values make people more willing to work with such leaders. So, I would say be a person who care.If one can attribute this trait, then he or she can bring miracles in not only lives of their family members but people around.Think like a leader and be a leader.Thus, take care of people to reach the ultimate goal of leadership which is to save humanity.ALL THE BEST.........AND ....BE A LEADER....
POONAM KANSLIWAL
In any institute, organization, company and country role of a head is very important. People who work under, always look up to them.There are so many words to explain the character of a leader like- Visionary, innovator, motivator, initiator, torch-bearer etc.
But I feel one word "care" gives a complete sense in all respect.In a family we see our mother or father as a leader who takes care of everything.They consciously or unconsciously become " hero" in our life.Similarly, we look up, on teachers when we go to school.
I believe each person is a leader in their position.In our day to day life, each moment,we have to be conscious and take charge of situations.Now, how we react and act on the circumstances develops our personality.And this makes us either a leader or a follower. As JOHN QUICY ADAMS says - If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a LEADER.
A leader always search for solutions.As in the words of HENRY FORD - " Don't find the fault, find remedy". A LEADER walks along with the people who follow him. He understands the value of their work. He communicates and creates an atmosphere of trust.These values make people more willing to work with such leaders. So, I would say be a person who care.If one can attribute this trait, then he or she can bring miracles in not only lives of their family members but people around.Think like a leader and be a leader.Thus, take care of people to reach the ultimate goal of leadership which is to save humanity.ALL THE BEST.........AND ....BE A LEADER....
POONAM KANSLIWAL
Thursday, May 24, 2018
LIVE YOUR DREAMS
" A dream is a wish your heart makes." -- WALT DISNEY
We have one human life to live. We get several choices to make our life go smoothly. But sometimes it is difficult to find that which is the right way to go. Then arise the conflict in our mind. Several thoughts come to our mind.
In some cases we even have to make a choice between our dreams and reality.
This reminds me of a quote by OPRAH WINFREY-
" The biggest adventure you can take is to live life of your DREAMS"
If we follow this quote then I think we can go for our dreams. But most of us are not really able to make this choice. The reason is very well given by famous motivational speaker.
LES BROWN in his quote :-
"Too many of us are not living our dreams because we are living our fear".
I believe we should always live the life of our dreams. If we do not do so, then we always will strive for happiness in life. And believe that something incomplete in our life. So, stand up and take a stand for your dreams. And give your heart and soul to live the life you want.
"Let your dreams be bigger than your fears and your actions louder than your words".
We have one human life to live. We get several choices to make our life go smoothly. But sometimes it is difficult to find that which is the right way to go. Then arise the conflict in our mind. Several thoughts come to our mind.
In some cases we even have to make a choice between our dreams and reality.
This reminds me of a quote by OPRAH WINFREY-
" The biggest adventure you can take is to live life of your DREAMS"
If we follow this quote then I think we can go for our dreams. But most of us are not really able to make this choice. The reason is very well given by famous motivational speaker.
LES BROWN in his quote :-
"Too many of us are not living our dreams because we are living our fear".
I believe we should always live the life of our dreams. If we do not do so, then we always will strive for happiness in life. And believe that something incomplete in our life. So, stand up and take a stand for your dreams. And give your heart and soul to live the life you want.
"Let your dreams be bigger than your fears and your actions louder than your words".
Sunday, May 20, 2018
KEEP REGRET ASIDE
In early stage of my life, I never had this word in my dictionary called "Regret". But as I grew up and completed my college, this word took a prime place in my life. Further, as I moved its intensity increased in my life.Then I faced many situations where I felt regret.It was like a vicious cycle.
This continued for few years.I started to write about my life. I use to think that my story has lot of stumbling block and pitfall.As I always associated success with walk of life(position). I was never happy with current situation.I felt that my situations are never right to step ahead.On the other hand, I thought that other people have better circumstances, that is why they are able to achieve what they want.
Then, I started to observe closely life of everyone around me.Also, started to read and listen life stories of successful people.I found that many things are common with pros and cons.I realized two important points.
One- Situations and circumstances are never constant.This equation is always changing. It is the person who has to take charge and resonate himself.
Second- It is very easy to take things for granted and blame.And what is easy most people do.We hardly realize importance of what we have in many ways like material possession, skill, health, family, knowledge education and list can go on.
So, at some level one must have a sense of satisfaction. I now think that my story should not be filled with regret. As I realized more I regret more I shall get that in return.One should make themselves strong and take full responsibility of their action." Regret" is like carrying an extra baggage on our back.This will not strengthen us rather will bend our back for ever.It is a negative aspect to live a life.Now, on a positive note, I would say - "Always be happy and grateful in the circumstances you receive. One should appreciate and be thankful. As this attitude will only lead to life of your dreams.
KEEP READING............................And do share your precious comments... POONAM KANSLIWAL
This continued for few years.I started to write about my life. I use to think that my story has lot of stumbling block and pitfall.As I always associated success with walk of life(position). I was never happy with current situation.I felt that my situations are never right to step ahead.On the other hand, I thought that other people have better circumstances, that is why they are able to achieve what they want.
Then, I started to observe closely life of everyone around me.Also, started to read and listen life stories of successful people.I found that many things are common with pros and cons.I realized two important points.
One- Situations and circumstances are never constant.This equation is always changing. It is the person who has to take charge and resonate himself.
Second- It is very easy to take things for granted and blame.And what is easy most people do.We hardly realize importance of what we have in many ways like material possession, skill, health, family, knowledge education and list can go on.
So, at some level one must have a sense of satisfaction. I now think that my story should not be filled with regret. As I realized more I regret more I shall get that in return.One should make themselves strong and take full responsibility of their action." Regret" is like carrying an extra baggage on our back.This will not strengthen us rather will bend our back for ever.It is a negative aspect to live a life.Now, on a positive note, I would say - "Always be happy and grateful in the circumstances you receive. One should appreciate and be thankful. As this attitude will only lead to life of your dreams.
KEEP READING............................And do share your precious comments... POONAM KANSLIWAL
Friday, May 18, 2018
Breaking the barrier
We are living in a world where everything has become so easy to reach .We can connect to anyone within micro second through different means of technology.
My question - " Is this really known as breaking of barrier?" I guess no, it is only connecting like a spider web to one another making a link.When I say barrier, it is some obstruction which does not allow us to grow. It is easy to walk on a smooth road but it will not bring out the abilities to overcome hurdles.I am not saying that one must always face some problem to develop themselves.
I think one should give wings to their creativity. We ourselves mess so much in our life that we forget our real life.In our mind we create a cocoon around which does not allow us to follow our dreams.One must always check themselves and jolt from inside as to know whether we are carrying any burden in our head which is not letting us open to the beautiful world out there.
This question must be asked to ourselves again and again then only we will find solutions to break the barrier.As sometime in life we get stuck up with things around. It may be our family, friends, workplace, fear, depression, illness and even our mind set.
Come up and rise, their is lot to achieve in this short span of life. If one can meet with the true self (outer and inner),then in real sense we can call it as " Breaking Of Barrier".Take a step ahead and take your own time but then as you move on you can see the beautiful change in you personality.....STILL MORE TO COME...my real life story and lot more............... POONAM KANSLIWAL
My question - " Is this really known as breaking of barrier?" I guess no, it is only connecting like a spider web to one another making a link.When I say barrier, it is some obstruction which does not allow us to grow. It is easy to walk on a smooth road but it will not bring out the abilities to overcome hurdles.I am not saying that one must always face some problem to develop themselves.
I think one should give wings to their creativity. We ourselves mess so much in our life that we forget our real life.In our mind we create a cocoon around which does not allow us to follow our dreams.One must always check themselves and jolt from inside as to know whether we are carrying any burden in our head which is not letting us open to the beautiful world out there.
This question must be asked to ourselves again and again then only we will find solutions to break the barrier.As sometime in life we get stuck up with things around. It may be our family, friends, workplace, fear, depression, illness and even our mind set.
Come up and rise, their is lot to achieve in this short span of life. If one can meet with the true self (outer and inner),then in real sense we can call it as " Breaking Of Barrier".Take a step ahead and take your own time but then as you move on you can see the beautiful change in you personality.....STILL MORE TO COME...my real life story and lot more............... POONAM KANSLIWAL
Thursday, May 17, 2018
KEEP OPTIONS OPEN
At times life teaches us a lesson so we have to learn and move on. This message we get as we keep on exploring. That is why it is said, " The more you explore, the more you experience".
The journey of life starts and sometimes we won't even realize that we are only the passenger and the journey ends. Before the life comes to an end one must give chance and opportunity to oneself. Here options not only in terms of the carrier but also the choices which we make in our day to day life. Usually, we prefer to live a life in the nutshell, where we get all the nourishment easily. Inside which less effort and energy is required.
But if one can realize their own potential then they can break the shell. And the breaking of shell only means finding options. A human body - Physical and Mental state both are very powerful. Even in the toughest of the situation our body has a mechanism to heal itself. Talking about options means one must give chance to get out of rudimentary choices. One must always be open to new ideas, they might find it beneficial in the long run.
I am giving chance to my life by giving an opportunity to myself by writing my first blog. And there is much more inside me which I am going to resonate soon. Hope this will help me connect with people to whom I can share my feelings and my new ideas to live a life to fullest
.............POONAM KANSLIWAL
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