In early stage of my life, I never had this word in my dictionary called "Regret". But as I grew up and completed my college, this word took a prime place in my life. Further, as I moved its intensity increased in my life.Then I faced many situations where I felt regret.It was like a vicious cycle.
This continued for few years.I started to write about my life. I use to think that my story has lot of stumbling block and pitfall.As I always associated success with walk of life(position). I was never happy with current situation.I felt that my situations are never right to step ahead.On the other hand, I thought that other people have better circumstances, that is why they are able to achieve what they want.
Then, I started to observe closely life of everyone around me.Also, started to read and listen life stories of successful people.I found that many things are common with pros and cons.I realized two important points.
One- Situations and circumstances are never constant.This equation is always changing. It is the person who has to take charge and resonate himself.
Second- It is very easy to take things for granted and blame.And what is easy most people do.We hardly realize importance of what we have in many ways like material possession, skill, health, family, knowledge education and list can go on.
So, at some level one must have a sense of satisfaction. I now think that my story should not be filled with regret. As I realized more I regret more I shall get that in return.One should make themselves strong and take full responsibility of their action." Regret" is like carrying an extra baggage on our back.This will not strengthen us rather will bend our back for ever.It is a negative aspect to live a life.Now, on a positive note, I would say - "Always be happy and grateful in the circumstances you receive. One should appreciate and be thankful. As this attitude will only lead to life of your dreams.
KEEP READING............................And do share your precious comments... POONAM KANSLIWAL
This continued for few years.I started to write about my life. I use to think that my story has lot of stumbling block and pitfall.As I always associated success with walk of life(position). I was never happy with current situation.I felt that my situations are never right to step ahead.On the other hand, I thought that other people have better circumstances, that is why they are able to achieve what they want.
Then, I started to observe closely life of everyone around me.Also, started to read and listen life stories of successful people.I found that many things are common with pros and cons.I realized two important points.
One- Situations and circumstances are never constant.This equation is always changing. It is the person who has to take charge and resonate himself.
Second- It is very easy to take things for granted and blame.And what is easy most people do.We hardly realize importance of what we have in many ways like material possession, skill, health, family, knowledge education and list can go on.
So, at some level one must have a sense of satisfaction. I now think that my story should not be filled with regret. As I realized more I regret more I shall get that in return.One should make themselves strong and take full responsibility of their action." Regret" is like carrying an extra baggage on our back.This will not strengthen us rather will bend our back for ever.It is a negative aspect to live a life.Now, on a positive note, I would say - "Always be happy and grateful in the circumstances you receive. One should appreciate and be thankful. As this attitude will only lead to life of your dreams.
KEEP READING............................And do share your precious comments... POONAM KANSLIWAL
Very true expressions of living. Positive approach is always right way to move in life ahead
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